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����Joe Tan: Hi Sam, please take a seat. Good morning, Lucinda. Please sit down. How are you both this morning��

������Together�� Sam and Lucinda: Good, thanks.

����Joe: I asked you both to come in this morning because there's been rumors floating around that you two are involved in a personal relationship. Now I know these kinds of things can be sensitive, but I do feel we have to discuss it.

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����Lucinda: Yes, the rumors are true. Sam and I are in love!

����Sam: It's true, I feel the same way about Lucinda!

����Joe: Well, let me be the first to congratulate you! Falling in love is great and I'm very happy for both of you.

����S: But��

����J: Well, our company does have some guidelines for internal relationships.

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����L: The company frowns on co-workers dating each other, right��

����J: Let's just say such relationships are not actively encouraged.

����S: But why�� We are in love!

����J: Well, there are many reasons, but one of the main downsides to interoffice relationships is that they can be a big distraction from work. Other employees can sometimes see such relationships as unfair. The end result can be jealousy, hurt feelings and a loss of productivity for the company.

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����L: But in today's modern working world, I feel like there is very little opportunity to meet people. Bars are smoky and loud. Internet dating can be very scary……it seems like I spend most of my time working at the office, so isn't it natural to find a co-worker as a partner��

����S: I have to agree. Lucinda and I work on the same projects so we have a lot in common. I even think our productivity has increased as a result of our relationship.

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����J: I understand your position completely. And let me say: our company doesn't have a blanket ban on interoffice relationships. We are just concerned about possible ramifications. When you first fall in love, of course you don't think about what would happen if you broke up, but let's face it...break-ups are very common. Have you considered what it would be like if the relationship didn't work out?

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����L: That's true. It would be very awkward to work with an ex-boyfriend every day.

����S: But there must be some way we can continue dating and working together. We are adults after all.

����J: Yes, I think there are ways you can continue a relationship while working together. Relationship experts say the first rule when co-workers decide to date each other is to plan an 'exit strategy.'

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����L: Exit strategy?

����J: Yes. What would you do if the relationship isn't successful? You should think about that. I think the biggest issue is that if it doesn't work out, you still have to face that person every day...and that can be tough.

����S: I think you've given us some good points we should talk over. Let me assure you that Lucinda and I will be as discreet as possible around the office.

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����J: One option is for one of you to transfer to a different department so you can still work together, but not in such an intimate way.

����L: Yes, that's a possibility we should think about. Let me also say that we recognize that when we are working, the job comes first. There will be no drop in productivity, I can guarantee that!

����J: Well, I think you both are handling this situation in a mature way. Let's just take it from here and see how it goes, OK? Thanks for talking with me and being honest and open. I really appreciate that.

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